Sunday, December 31, 2006

Have you ever read this?

I just came across this while looking through my website. I don't even remember writing it, but it made me laugh! For my friend's 40th birthday, we formed a band for one night only and played at the Whisky-Go-Go on the Sunset Strip. We had to have band names and a bio... this was mine!

CLICK HERE

Happy New Year

I want to say so much, but on the off chance that I don't make time, I want to wish everyone a very happy and brilliant new year! xo

Thursday, December 21, 2006

Tuesday, December 19, 2006

I'm in the mood for food...

I am going to have some time off and I feel like cooking. Favor me with your favorite recipe, won't you? I promise to write about the one I cook and include photos... xo

candy

Remember when your mother told you to never take candy from a stranger? This is who she was talking about...

Monday, December 18, 2006

Happy Bowladays!

Tonight I was invited to a private bowling party that was being thrown by this girl named Kelly. I hear she won some talent show that was broadcast on TV. I didn't really get into it, but she was definitely incredibly sweet. Not too shocking considering how much I love her other friends that we share in common. Like the hilarious Jessie McNamara...



or Sam and Ginny



or the sassy Aunt Mel



or Aben and Ashleyanne, two people I can't tell them I love enough. Seriously, they get insecure if I don't say it often.



There were some intimate moments as Aben gave Drew some pointers...



He didn't seem to have the same for his sister who had her own style...



Aben was giddy after THREE strikes in a row. That only happens to me in baseball.





Thanks again Kel for the party tonight. I hope that singing thing works out for you. Good people deserve good things. Personally, I feel I deserve some sleep. 'Night all! xo



Sunday, December 17, 2006

I need some Toddlehouse eggs.

Hi.

So I keep promising to blog and I keep not blogging.

Because it has been so long, there are so many things swimming in my mind I could talk about and I am not sure which would be the most interesting.

We never chatted about seeing the Dixie Chicks or Barbra Streisand. So I suppose we could talk about that. How brilliant I thought it was when the Chicks entered the stage to All Hail The Chief or how dizzy I was sitting eighth row center at Streisand. If that isn't a gay man's fantasy, I don't know what is.

We could talk about the holidays. How are you holding up by the way? I am one ghost visit away from uttering,"bah humbug". I have decided I am completely against presents. Well, Christmas presents anyway. There is just no way for me to give to all of my friends anything of value that would represent the worth of their friendship. Even to give all of my friends a gift under ten dollars could end up costing me thousands. So it is better to not give or receive as far as I am concerned. Instead, I want to enjoy the parties. The friends I haven't seen in months. Laughing over good food and a smart cocktail, unlike last night when I had too many stupid cocktails. My stomach is not pleased with me this morning. I'll take it to breakfast soon and hopefully it will forgive me.

We could chat about the weather. I am housesitting for a friend. The bed I am typing from (I know, so decadent) is about four feet off the ground, giving me just enough leverage to see for miles into the horizon through the large bay windows. Oh yeah, I am on the third floor (did I mention decadent?). The air is cold and crisp and the sun is shining. Whoever said Los Angeles
is ugly has never been here during our winter. The sky is crystal clear and the air has just enough moisture to add a little green to the landscape. It sure beats shoveling snow or the windstorm that knocked out Seattle's power this week.

We could talk about my new job and how much I love it. I have never been busier and I have never been happier (hence the lack of posting). Sure, I'm a little scared about my tasks ahead for the new year, but nothing is worth doing if it doesn't mean something and stimulate you. Does that make sense or am I really that hungover?

We could talk about the cover of the new Esquire magazine that reads: The Meaning of life. That reminds me, I have been working on a blog about God. I am looking forward to posting that one and getting your feedback. I always enjoy receiving your feedback. Makes me feel like I am not typing to myself.

We could talk about New Year's resolutions. I really need to put mine in writing this year. I always mean to. I would be curious to see how I did this year. I had such different expectations of 2006 and was taken in such a completely different direction. I'll definitely get working on that one soon.

We could talk about how my dear friend Sizzle started a blog revolution last Friday by asking everyone to reveal their online blog crush. Is it too late to reveal mine? I do have a little one. On a straight boy that I don't even know that I actually discovered through Sizzle's blog. It is a healthy crush. I just appreciate his love for General Hospital and his ability to craft his words so beautifully into the most heart wrenching and romantic prose. I think the girl that gets him is going to be a lucky recipient to his generous heart. Have I gone too far in my gushing? Who knows? Maybe he is a serial killer and the blog is all a front. Is that better? No, I don't like thinking that either. How about, he writes all of these romantic words but he is actually really kinky. Yes. I like that much better. I digress.

We could talk about the Tater Tot casserole I made to celebrate my childhood friend Matt's birthday this week. How every time I talk to him on the phone my mind is flooded with memories and even though we don't talk often, there is a familial feeling that grounds and centers me. Maybe I should talk to him more often for that very reason. A resolution perhaps?

We could talk about my real life crush on a boy. A boy I actually know. A boy who seems to have a crush on me in return. A boy who has been making my heart smile a lot lately. Perhaps 2007 will finally reveal that boyfriend I am always dreaming about.

We could talk about all of these things. And perhaps we will over the next few weeks as the holidays offer me some time to wax poetic and breathe. In the meantime, this will have to be enough for now as I am starving. I think I need potatoes and maybe some bacon. Mmmmmm
bacon. Maybe a BLT. Maybe some Toddlehouse eggs. Yes. Today is a good day for breakfast.

Hope it is a good one for you as well.

xo

Saturday, December 16, 2006

In case you missed it...


For anyone who might get in here via blogger... click here for the proper presentation (and make sure you turn your volume up).

I don't know why it keeps making me giggle so much!

Happy Holidays!

Girl Camp!

Wednesday, December 13, 2006

A couple of Saturday night pics...

See Jane have a dinner party.
See Jane make us wear Christmas sweaters.
See Jane's Xenu manger scene.
See us have a fabulous night.







Then I stopped by my friend Rand's party.
Christmas vest was still a hit!




and one from last Halloween with my dear friend Rick James



many more to follow...

Tuesday, December 12, 2006

Oddities.

Cyanide and Happiness, a daily webcomic
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I'm not feeling so good. I had a delicious dinner with my friend Paddy last night and then I spent the entire night restless and nauseous. No, it wasn't Paddy's fault. In fact, I would do it all again just to have another meal like that with her. It's just making for an uncomfortable day. And I have so much to do. And of course I am tired and not feeling well, so I don't want to do anything. And we all know what I like to do when I procrastinate- BLOG. It also helps that I haven't really done one in so long. You would never know I have so much to say with as quiet as I have been. But I do. And not to be a tease, but it isn't going to be right now. Unfortunately, I really do need to get some things done. Maybe I will heat up that chicken noodle soup in the fridge and blog during lunch. Odd that that seems comforting to me. But what about me and my life isn't odd?

Wednesday, December 06, 2006

Friday, November 17, 2006

Everybody's doing it!

Sorry I haven't had time to post lately. Loving the new job, but there suddenly isn't enough time in my day. But, there is always time for observing homosexuality.

Click here for a very interesting article on gay animals...

Thursday, November 09, 2006

Your name in Russian.

Just type your name in the box and you will see it translated into the Russian alphabet. I think their letters are more interesting than ours... (and no that doesn't make me a communist!)

Click Here

Everything's coming up Rosie.

Tuesday, November 07, 2006

Praise Jesus.

No wonder heterosexuals don't want to ruin the sanctity of marriage by allowing same sex-couples to wed. With the exemplary marriages of Britney Spears, who could blame them for wanting to keep the purity to themselves?

LOS ANGELES - Britney Spears filed for divorce Tuesday from Kevin Federline, officials said. The Los Angeles County Superior Court filing cites "irreconcilable differences," said court spokeswoman Kathy Roberts. click here to read the rest.

Don't forget to vote!

Check out my friend Douglas's number one video on YouTube today!

Sunday, November 05, 2006

Getting it out.

Alive.
I feel it.
It's been awhile.
Thankful.
I feel it.
Have for awhile.
Today is my last day of vacation.
It's all I ever wanted.
Had to get away.
I start my new job in the morning.
I'm hoping to get some sleep tonight.
I haven't felt this way since the first day of school.
Every September.
New clothes. New Supplies.
New routine. New attitude.
I'm watching Lost.
Finally. Season One.
Have been since Friday.
I'm understanding the addiction.
Time to visit Hawaii.
So many friends in the credits.
Who knew?
This week I followed Robbie Williams into a bathroom.
Who knew it would make the society pages?
I love him.
Possibly even more now.
Doogie came out.
Who's next?
Watched Christina Aguilera sing.
Five feet in front of me.
Barely five feet tall.
A voice the size of Cleveland.
How do I find myself in these magic moments?
A month ago, the Bangles sang.
My friend's school.
Children walking like Egyptians.
Dancing with full abandon.
Pure magic.
Two weeks ago.
My friend's birthday.
Busta Rhymes sings just inches from me.
Paris Hilton and Kevin Federline in the same room.
Does that mean I am popular or am I scraping the barrel?
Last night we raised money.
Orphanage. Tijuana.
Children in need.
So many unwanted children.
So many wanting parents.
Why do we keep them apart?
Madonna saves a life.
She's still being spit on.
Jessica says something stupid.
She's treated an idol.
How did we get this way?
I closed a chapter this week.
Tomorrow a new one opens.
Said goodbye to nearly four years.
That's how long we are in high school.
Will tomorrow be like starting college?
They said they wanted a revolution.
And yet we made Gigli.
I will miss my friends.
I won't miss filing.
I will miss the laughing and silliness.
I hope my new co-workers love to laugh.
Otherwise I'm in trouble.
Without laughter.
I am nothing.
And I can't have that.


Saturday, November 04, 2006

Oh Robbie!



Christina Rocks While Robbie Shocks

Motorola celebrated eight years in Hollywood with an off-the-hook bash at the Hollywood Palladium Thursday night. Under the guidance of Moto’s David Pinsky, the ballroom (which shows its age) was totally transformed into “the hippest club in Hollywood,” as one of our group noted. It was a Desperate Housewives beefcake bonanza, as the recently departed Jesse Metcalfe and new hottie Josh Henderson were there (as was Nicollette Sheridan, who plays Henderson’s aunt). Paris Hilton made a splash when she entered the event, and we also spotted Backstreet Boy A.J. McLean, Dominique Swain, Ivanka Trump, Lost hunk Rodrigo Santiago, and more America’s Next Top Model contestants than you could shake a stick at. As the crowd waited for a live performance by Christina Aguilera, we maneuvered close to the stage, where we caught up briefly with Queer as Folk’s adorable Peter Paige. But conversations were cut short when Aguilera, looking sculpted and fit, came out and tore through her set, which included “Ain’t No Other Man,” “Lady Marmalade,” “Beautiful,” and “Fighter.” The gay boys around us were having apoplectic fits (we won’t name names, but they should maybe not drink quite so much so they don’t hit the nice straight girls in front of them as they wave their hands enthusiastically in the air like they’re 12). But while Aguilera, who starts her world tour shortly, was phenomenal—we continue to be in awe of how such a big voice comes out of such a tiny body—the real highlight was when a friend of ours followed Robbie Williams into the bathroom (no, it wasn’t us; we’d never stoop so low—we’d just report on it). Let’s say our friend was impressed with everything he saw except for the fact that Williams didn’t wash his hands after he finished his business. Not surprisingly, the consensus among every gay man we shared this detail with was, “I’d still sleep with him.” source

Friday, November 03, 2006

EXCLUSIVE: Neil Patrick Harris Tells PEOPLE He Is Gay

FRIDAY NOVEMBER 03, 2006 06:55PM EST

Neil Patrick Harris is gay – and wants to quell recent reports that he had denied it. The actor tells PEOPLE exclusively:

"The public eye has always been kind to me, and until recently I have been able to live a pretty normal life. Now it seems there is speculation and interest in my private life and relationships.

"So, rather than ignore those who choose to publish their opinions without actually talking to me, I am happy to dispel any rumors or misconceptions and am quite proud to say that I am a very content gay man living my life to the fullest and feel most fortunate to be working with wonderful people in the business I love."

Harris, 33, currently stars in the CBS comedy How I Met Your Mother. He shot to fame in 1989 at age 16 when he played a teen-prodigy doctor on the hit Doogie Howser, M.D. "It was a very fast but wonderful education," he told PEOPLE in 1998.

After the show went off the air in 1993, he shook off his teen image with roles in the musicals Rent and Assassins and a wild turn as an unhinged version himself in the 2004 movie Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle.

"I'm enjoying my 30s," he told PEOPLE in 2004. "I feel like I know where I'm going. And I like where I'm going."




See you soon.


SAY GOODBYE
NOT KNOWING WHEN
THE TRUTH IN MY WHOLE LIFE BEGAN

I LEARNED
TO LET GO
OF THE ILLUSION
THAT WE CAN POSSESS
I LEARNED TO LET GO
I TRAVEL IN STILLNESS
I'LL REMEMBER HAPPINESS
I'LL REMEMBER

AND I'LL REMEMBER
THE LOVE THAT YOU GAVE ME
NOW THAT I'M STANDING ON MY OWN
I'LL REMEMBER
THE WAY THAT YOU CHANGED ME
I'LL REMEMBER

Thursday, November 02, 2006

Rock the vote.



Are you registered?

Click here and register to vote.

It's the best way to speak your mind.

And don't take it for granted when there are other countries still fighting for their same right.

Wednesday, November 01, 2006

Spreading Your Light

How You Affect Others Daily source

As the pace and fullness of modern life serve to isolate us from one another, the contact we do share becomes vastly more significant. We unconsciously absorb each other's energy, adopting the temperament of those with whom we share close quarters, and find ourselves changed after the briefest encounters. Everything we do or say has the potential to affect not only the individuals we live, work, and play with but also those we've just met. Though we may never know the impact we have had or the scope of our influence, accepting and understanding that our attitudes and choices will affect others can help us remember to conduct ourselves with grace at all times. When we seek always to be friendly, helpful, and responsive, we effortlessly create an atmosphere around ourselves that is both uplifting and inspiring.

Most people rarely give thought to the effect they have had or will have on others. When we take a few moments to contemplate how our individual modes of being affect the people we spend time with each day, we come one step closer to seeing ourselves through the eyes of others. By asking ourselves whether those we encounter walk away feeling appreciated, respected, and liked, we can heighten our awareness of the effect we ultimately have. Something as simple as a smile given freely can temporarily brighten a person's entire world. Our value-driven conduct may inspire others to consider whether their own lives are reflective of their values. A word of advice can help others see life in an entirely new fashion. And small gestures of kindness can even prove to those embittered by the world that goodness still exists. By simply being ourselves, we influence other's lives in both subtle and life-altering ways.

To ensure that the effect we have is positive, we must strive to stay true to ourselves while realizing that it is the demeanor we project and not the quality of our wondrous inner landscapes that people see. Thus, as we interact with others, how we behave can be as important as who we are. If we project our passion for life, our warmth, and our tolerance in our facial features, voice, and choice of words, every person who enters our circle of influence will leave our presence feeling at peace with themselves and with us. You never know whose life you are affecting, big or small. Try to remember this as you go out into the world each day.

Thursday, October 26, 2006

My friend Bonnie is so proud.

This is the gorgeous mom to be...



And this is the proud father...








Wednesday, October 25, 2006

Could it be true?

N.J. Court Backs Rights for Same-Sex Unions

By THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
Published: October 25, 2006
TRENTON, N.J. (AP) -- New Jersey's Supreme Court has ruled that same-sex couples are entitled to the same rights as heterosexual couples, but that lawmakers must determine whether the state will honor gay marriage or some other form of civil union.

BAUB: Origins, Rebellion, Redemption

sharing an IM conversation from this morning:

baub vs bob, spill it
what's to spill?
you mean what is the origin of Baub or which do I prefer?
precisely
you kill me
you definitely make my brain work
a little too much this morning... I tried to read your blog when I woke up.
note to self: must go back later after my coffee that has been spit up all over my desk kicks in
hahaha
when I was in high school...
a scrawny little scamp I was
i finally started making friends (had a fairly friendless childhood)
I was shy and awkwrd
probably because I was so girlie when it came to booger and fart jokes
fart
took a lot of therapy to type that word
so the first friends that i made were of course the "alternative/goth folk"
somehow I fit in with them even though they were all in black and listening to Depeche Mode and the Cure
I started wearing all black, but never gave up my Debbie Gibson and Madonna
and then in their rebellious state, they all began changing the spelling of their names
mind you, I was 14
so my friend Amy became Aimee, Dory became Doree
so of course Bob had to become Baub
it lasted for about six months
but while it was in effect, it was bad
once a teacher wrote a note on my paper saying, "great paper Bob!"
and I returned it to HIM with the proper spelling!
can you imagine?
so after I came to my senses, the spelling felt embarrassing and I quickly retired it
until sometime in the early nineties, a friend from that era reminded me of it
and instead of shunning it, i embraced it
and it sort of became my "personality monicker"
that's funny, same with mine.
hated it when i was younger and hid it from people, now some of my closest friends call me it

and THAT my friend should be your next blog

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Reichen Writes a Book.

Last night was the book launch for Reichen's new book. I had so much fun. So many fun people in one room. Love it!





He better write more in mine.





The future of MoGreet












Sunday

My friend Will turned four on Sunday.



Isn't he darling?



Super B took me for a flight through the sky!



Super B, Jack and Super Paddy



What party is complete without a super bounce?



Who doesn't love a drive by from Kristie?



The original laker girl, Melanie!